tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730758290724925733.post7839405059050802019..comments2023-07-29T16:19:17.285+02:00Comments on the pretty walrus: Something for MeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730758290724925733.post-35524997587991014552014-08-11T09:32:18.860+02:002014-08-11T09:32:18.860+02:00Thank you and keep up the good work as a mum. I re...Thank you and keep up the good work as a mum. I really admire you. xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18059835307639807322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730758290724925733.post-41086784942086863682014-08-10T12:48:58.940+02:002014-08-10T12:48:58.940+02:00Hi Angelique, thank you so much for leaving this c...Hi Angelique, thank you so much for leaving this comment. I completely get where you're coming from. However (of course there was going to be a "however"), I wouldn't change this for anything. I know that right now the unknown of having a child is so huge that it can put you off, but it's also the most rewarding experience you'll possibly ever have. No, your life will never be the same again, but it's not in a bad way. So I guess I just wanted to highlight that although I may have given up a large part of myself for the best part of four years, in the grand scheme of things it's not a long time and it's a small price to pay in exchange for having these two little humans by my side. Whichever path you choose to take, I wish you all the happiness in the world xclare @ the pretty walrushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17463034859576633428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8730758290724925733.post-27634253955994260632014-08-09T18:21:14.194+02:002014-08-09T18:21:14.194+02:00Hi Clare, we don't know each other personally ...Hi Clare, we don't know each other personally but I follow your blog and your last post hit the nail's head.<br /><br />I'm not a mother yet and although I would like to be one day I always keep postponing it. Your last post made me realize that loosing my identity and freedom are the reasons of holding me back. <br /><br />Whenever I discuss this with my husband he doesn't fully understand me as sometimes it's difficult to explain in words. I might be selfish but I know that unless I accept the fact that my life will change I will never get pregnant.<br /><br />Thanks Clare for making feel normal and sorry for the long comment.<br /><br />Angelique<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18059835307639807322noreply@blogger.com